hi all i've not been on for what feels like ages its just been such a busy weekend i've not had time to breathe.i'm a bit worried about ben at the moment coz his speech seems to getting slurred i just hope its nothing.i'm just so tired at the moment because of my 2 year old she has never slept through the night from the day she was born and its really starting to take its toll now what with me having to deal with ben as well.i've actually found something that is helping with ben and what i do is i line some pennys up somewhere that he can see them but can't reach them and when he's good he gets a penny in his money box but if he's bad i take one away from him which he doesn't like and its actually stopped him from swearing which was a major issue.i suppose i'd best go now and do some housework thats well overdue take care allmel x