I have 4 children, a son 34, daughter 31, ED 28 and my youngest has Down syndrome and is 27, lives with hubby and myself. I have always been very close to my grandbabies and my ED has taken away the 2 and 4 yr olds because she brought us into a situation where her husband has been abusing her and she had reason to investigate him molesting their 4 yr old. I have watched these 2 little girls several times a week since birth. ED has always been a challenge to get close to, we have given her lots. She has stolen $4000 from us, called me every name in the book and went back to her husband for money. The "marriage" she has with him is the most perverted relationship that I have ever heard of... he basically has her go with men and come home so he can "get off" on her telling him all the details. She so wasn't raised like this. I have felt like everyone here , devasted beyond anything I could have ever imagined. He has been working on keeping her from everyone since they met I just recently found out. Her best friend of 25 yrs she even quit communicating with. My heart is broken, but more than anything I am so worried about her 4 yr old who the last time I saw her was so frightened to go home she hit her mother, batted wildly in fear at her mothers hands to stop her from buckling her in the car to go home. That little pleading frightened face is forever before me.
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I am so sorry for the situation with your daughter and GC. How horrible. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh how horrible. To see an innocent living creature fighting for herself, and you cannot help her! Lord have mercy... my heart goes out to you, and that baby girl.
I really think everything we go thru, bottom line, sin. Sin has entered our familys to cause pain and division.
Yard work today, it was beautiful out. Busy is always good. After dinner I looked at pictures of my granddaughters and my ED, not a good idea, sadness and crying. Thank the Lord for the moments of being busy.
hash and rehash,,, why, I don\'t understand..... Hubby and I are fighting,,,, it wears on the relationship at times.... so sad today.
I can\'t stand this.... somebody wake me up and tell me this was all a nightmare. How did life turn out like this. :(
I know- after 4+ yrs I still feel like I am walking through a nightmare I can\'t wake from. And it all seems so surreal- like \"Really Lord? Is this my life now? When will the blinders be removed from their eyes and they\'ll see rationally again? This can\'t be happening to me! I hope there is some comfort in knowing that others feel these same feelings. My prayers are with your family!!
\"Lord, you know how helpless we feel. We want so much to help the little ones escape these situations. I believe yo have a plan in every life and will bring honor and glory out of these hardships if we cooperate in the process! Please help me cooperate. Please touch the lives of all these hurting parents here, Lord
God will help you be an advocate for your small grandchildren. Be of good courage, my friend. Prayers for you.. I completely understand your pain.
Prayed for your Grandbabies, that their angels, who forever see the face of our God, protect them with a flaming sword to all those who want to hurt them. And for repentance be flowing from the gates of heaven to your daughter and her husband. So sorry to know such things exists. Hoping you get some encouragement and peace..In the Name above every name...Jesus, Amen
gma6 ,your g/c are little yet ...and it sounds like your daughter hasnt been in this situation for too long although the time has already been too long for you.I know this does nothing for the pain or hurt and worry you experience now ...but I have a strong feeling your daughters circumstances cannot continue as they are for too much longer .Something will happen and your daughter will be forced to make a life altering decision ,lets hope it happens ASAP.Bless you.