I feel like my boyfriend is selfish.  If I say one little word out he says i'm mean, nasty or the like yet I put up with him screaming the house down with his dad and don't say a word. Also I want him to come somewhere with me but it's like he's always putting his anxiety before his effort. I wait and say nothing in the hopes he'll plan something fun for us to do 'out' - somewhere out of his comfort zone that could just be a fun time for me and building for him and our relationship but He doesn't want to go out anywhere out of his comfort zone even though I tell him I really want him to come someplace- He also says he will but it changes his mind last minute. I'm not happy.Going to start a diet again tommorrow along with SAME-E type of anti-depressents that apparently work better than st johns wort, cos i don't feel they are strong enough.So here's to that...