BFN!
As soon as I woke up this morning I took the HPT and it showed what I expected....a negative:( After bawling my eyes out, and DH consoling me, I got ready for work. Thought about calling in but knew I would just sit at home and cry all day. I'm doing a little better but have my moments. I have a call in to my RE's office and they haven't called back yet. I guess we will try again but I just feel doubtful about investing the money for more IUI's when the success rate is what it is....not very good. I know many women get pg by IUI but I just don't feel like it will work for me. We don't have fertility coverage and IVF is such a huge expense so I'm at a loss of what to do right now. AF has not come or given me any signs she will appear soon. I'm assuming it's due to the progestrone and that's a question I want to ask my RE's ofc. I guess I'm still hanging on to hope that I might be pg since AF hasn't showed. My heart is broken right now so please forgive me if I don't reply much today.
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I\'m sorry for your BFN. I get upset every month when I either get a BFN or AF shows. I\'m emotional during AF so it\'s really the worst time to find out that you\'re not pregnant. I pray your spirits are up soon.
I am so very sorry Shannon, I can only imagine how disappointed you must be. Please know that I am here if you need to chat or vent. Many women go on to get BFP on their 2 or 3 tries at IUI..don\'t give up hope yet. There are still options for you and your DH, many fertility clinic\'s have payment plans as well to help out. Don\'t let the 1st first round knock you out!!!
I got on the computer as soon as I woke up from night shift. I\'m so sorry you are feeling this way right now.... I will send you a message! Hang in there sweetie!! XXOO
Oh honey, I am so sorry. I am still hanging on to hope for you too! Those HPT\'s are not always accurate. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
You are right, AF hasn\'t arrived, read my journal entries into the leadup to my BFP there is still hope, I have everything crossed for you!
You do not have to reply girl....been there!I am sorry...I have been thru that lots of times and it is not fun.If I had to do it all again I would have not changed it.It made me stronger and is now continuing to make me the strong woman that I dream of.I hope that you will get thru this fast and that you will be persistent......it is hard to be that way when you feel so negative and when you feel so helpless.(hormones don\'t help either)were you on progesterone?Anyways....be persistent and have hope...IUI\'s do work.Take me...a basket case of issues, HIGH FSH(12) was that high too when I got preg.,Endometriosis, and lining issues.I still got pregnant on a IUI.I believe in you....it takes on average up to three or four times....SUCKY but true.I hope you are pregnant this time though....sometimes it takes a little longer to show up.LOVE YA IF SIS!Huggies:)