So I have been thinking about my current situation and trying to get around telling my family about Jessye. Jessye my partner is a bigender female and is seriously thinking about taking testosterone treatment for make her more male. Jessye likes to be referred to as a male and sometimes that is hard to get around. I constantly have to refer to Jess as a she while in the presence of my family because they don't know about it yet. I am also concerned about how they are going to react to the news. I mean, it was hard enough telling them I was a lesbian over 6 years ao and now its like I have to explain to them again that I am in love with whomever I have fallen in love with, regardless of gender. I know there are going to be questions about me not liking men and why and how I will be ok with her becoming one and still be in love but.. i can't explain my feelings - they just are as they are.I want to tell them and I hope they will be warm about it, even though they have already expressed some concerns about Jess and I being together ( my mother of course) so it might be difficult.I wish everything was accepted because goddess knows how much easier life would be for someone like me..grrr
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I remember talks we\'ve had in the past and I must say that you are strong willed my dear. I believe in my heart of hearts that if they accepted you as they are, then they will accept your love for who he is. Don\'t give them room to question your judgement. You know who you love and you know why. That is all that matters in the end. I also seem to remember it was your mother who always yelled at you to get out of the house. Sometimes mother and daughter bonds aren\'t what we want them to be. Be strong friend and know that no matter what you have Jessye. And you have all your friends. And your \"soon to be sister in law\"????????? DO TELL :P
sorry typo **as you are** i meant