Life SUCKS!!
My daughter, Melany, had a complete break down yesterday, and tried to commit suicide. She's in hospital now, and is doing o.k. Her little girl, Lee-Ann, witnessed it all, and is severely traumatised. The reason was that the firm she worked for, was declared bankrupt yesterday. Also her boyfriend dumped her, 2 days ago.
The police was notified of her suicide attempt, and they had to notify the welfare. To stop the welfare from taking little Lee-Ann away, I have to take custody of her. My son went through to sort it all out. And their biological father just pulled up his shoulders and declared that he can't help! He has a good job with a good income, but his 3 rd wife won't like it if he helped Melany!!
I seriously hate this life!!!
The police was notified of her suicide attempt, and they had to notify the welfare. To stop the welfare from taking little Lee-Ann away, I have to take custody of her. My son went through to sort it all out. And their biological father just pulled up his shoulders and declared that he can't help! He has a good job with a good income, but his 3 rd wife won't like it if he helped Melany!!
I seriously hate this life!!!
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I am so sorry,,, I send my prayers...... love ya!
Oh my darling.....I am so very, very sorry.
Many prayers and much love energy being sent to Melany. Hoping and believing she will receive the help she so desperately needs to get through this very difficult time.
My heart aches Lee-Ann and for you as well~~
Yes, life can surely SUCK at times.
I\'m just so, so sorry....
This IS heartbreaking news dear friend... I am beyond sorry and know this creates an enormous amount of continued heartache, anxiety and stress for you.
The most loving care I have is being sent to you and please stay close and let us hold your hand during this time and in the days ahead.
Loving care and again, I\'m so, so sorry...
XO Joanie
Much love, prayers and tight hugs being sent your way. Sue xo
Andelene,
I am here loving you and praying for you and your family. Big, big, big, long distance HUGS!!!
Leda
OH dear Andelene,
I am so sorry to hear this dreadful news. Life is so hard. I am so glad that you are there to take care of your granddaughter. I hope that your daughter gets the help and support she needs to heal...she is already lucky to have you and her daughter in her corner! Just breathe and take it one moment at a time.
Gentle hugs,
AnnM.
I am so very sorry to hear this...I am sending you tight hugs, prayers and all the good vibes I can...not to mention a little extra love. You are so right life right now does suck. Hug Lee-Ann tight and let her know you are there for her. Hugs, Ann
Melany is now safe and I am sure she will get the help she needs right now. I know how hard this is and it pray that you try to take gentle care of yourself. Know that we love you and come and write whenever you need to. And know that we are praying for each of you. Gentle hugs...Karen
Sending you and the family vibes of healing!!! Hugs, xoxoxo
This is terrible! Words fail me, so am sending positive energy yours and Melany\'s wayHugs, Donna
I can totally understand your feeling so discouraged... you were finding a little peace and its shattered... What a rough situation all round... As awful as it all is right now perhaps Melanie will see she has to take control of her life... Suicide often seems like a desirable option and if we allow ourselves to dwell on the idea... the practical aspects of how to do it and all its like we feed an enormous beast that gets bigger and bigger and finally devours us... but LeeAnn deserves better... I know Melanie knows this so maybe now she\'ll get some help so she can do better for herself and LeeAnn. Praying for all of you. Tight Hugs Elissa
I never received an email notification of this journal entry but I have messaged you privately. A woman who attempts suicide when she has a young child (or any age child), especially if that child is a witness, is acting out of not \"merely\" the circumstances of her immediate life experience. There\'s far more to it than that. Her ex husband is a wash: he can be held accountable only for child support (the IRS will see to that). As a \"father\" he is worse than useless: bad rubbish belongs in the dumpster. I don\'t know how old your daughter\'s child is but I urge you to find a child psychologist. The hospital/psych ward should be able to give you suggestions. Be seriously pro-active here. That child cannot go back into her mother\'s custody unless your daughter has been carefully diagnosed and is receiving therapy and psychiatric help.
Andelene, I am lost for words and yes life does
suck. I spoke with my former husband\'s cousins wife yesterday. She lost her 4yr old son to cancer 14yrs ago. There is one thing she said to me, life is hard and we cannot control what happens, although we would like to. Not sure if I can live by this. I try to take in everything I here from our Soths.
Not sure what I am trying to say but I am sending you and Melany my prayers. I hope they will help her heal and for you to sustain this very large hurtle you are experiencing.
Love to you
Laura
Dear Andelene, I am so, so sorry! You are in my thoughts and prayers, sending best wishes your way! Comforting Hugs and lots of Love,
Maria
I am so sorry you and your family are going through this. It\'s got to be very difficult, frightening and painful. Sending Big hugs your way.
Dee