weird
went to the copy center at 630 am this mornining g to make copies of the certified divorce papers stating custody in my favor. as I was doing that I got a text from my son that his mother was in the car next to him at the signal. Now ihave to think that is not by chance ( she lives 8 miles away) and I also have to think that if any thing were to happen the school would think they are calling me, but its her number that is that place. I am very concerned, he is vanurable and by himself before and after school. I know he can take care of himself (adult brown belt in Kempo) but no it seems she is stalking.
2 hours later I get a call from wellsfargo reguarding payment, and that she has contacted them wanting information
1 hr later my motgage calls with the same
2 hrs later I get home to find a very nice and understanding email from my mother in law, very uplifting and supportive.
10min a email from the attorney , X wrote a email wanting a check and telephone numbers to the oldest sons natural father ( the abuser that for 20 years never called him, and I was considered Dad, but now she wants the number, very painful)
Its been a day and night will bring no sleep for me...again
I have written the attorney about all this.
2 hours later I get a call from wellsfargo reguarding payment, and that she has contacted them wanting information
1 hr later my motgage calls with the same
2 hrs later I get home to find a very nice and understanding email from my mother in law, very uplifting and supportive.
10min a email from the attorney , X wrote a email wanting a check and telephone numbers to the oldest sons natural father ( the abuser that for 20 years never called him, and I was considered Dad, but now she wants the number, very painful)
Its been a day and night will bring no sleep for me...again
I have written the attorney about all this.
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WOW, she\'s definitely disturbed. When my X started doing bizarre things during our divorce, it was actually a good thing because it gave me the anger/strength to see it through. Because it would have been a lot worse and a lot harder if she behaved more like the person you loved. This is what kept me from taking my X back. Hang in there!
She\'s a whacko - she wants numbers for her X abuser from your lawyer? What the heck is that all about? Why would he even have that info??? The kids, 20.