I don't know why but today was an emotional day, I remember a year ago being in Santa Monica with Jon. One of the last days I spent with him. I was very blue this morning, not realizing how this is also affecting my husband. He and Jon were so close and then had a terrible falling out, he is feeling so terrible and I don't know how to help him since I am suffering myself.
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I am sorry....it has to be very hard on both of you...and it is so hard to support someone when your hurting so both are grieving so bad...Hopefully you can find a way to just reach out to each other...going through something that happens is bad enough but losing a child is so hard on both...I hope the best for you both..
sandi
Relationships are so hard after the loss of a child. My husband is very quiet and does not express his feelings and I have to be in the right mood to open a conversation (my last blog). We each grieve so differently and your husband has had a double whammy. I don\'t know about him, but when I mention counseling to Joe, he gets annoyed - though I think it would help.
I guess all we can do is the best we can. I just want you to know that I care and have some understanding.
Wishing you the best.
Marlene - Lisa\'s mom