How do u cope when your world starts to fall apart and knowing you'll never be able to put it back together...how do u cope when the person you love most in the world has to leave you.My world is crashing down around me and i'm trying to stop it but i cant its falling to fast....in less than 2months...My best friend the one i LOVE most in this world is going to be gone...she's going home and i know i'm not going to be able to cope...i'm finding it so hard now and she hasnt left yet.But shes not happy here and she never will be...i know i've caused her so much pain. I'm in tears just writing this...i cant get it out of my head...I want her to be happy and iknow that means her goin back to NZ (New Zealand)...it hurts so so much though, i cant even explain the pain its so bad.I gotta go...i cant write no more.
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then you will find a new friend becka....there are so many that would love your friendship. you can still keep in touch through this site and e-mails and such.i know it hurts, but we all lose someone that is near to us. it is part of life and teaches us to show love and kindness to the ones we have as friends and value them while we have them.
i wish i coould help you with this, but you will go on and you can cope and will be stronger for it. thank god for the time you have and had with her. be thankful that you had her for a gift at all in life and not how much hurt her absence will be. make plans to go see her, or live in n.z. when your finished with school. peace to your heart and love to your kind soul.
dennis
I know what you are saying there have been so many people that have left me to ....
including my sister brother and since then are relationship has never been the same thats one reason I have never made and real good freinds cause of that ...
well I hope you get throught this but I will be here as much as possiable if you ever need to talkk..
It is so painful to lose a friend. Try hard to keep having good times together while you can. You never know what the future will bring. You may see each other in the future. Hugs and more hugs, Donna
Oh Sweetie, I am so sorry. It hurts to loose a friend. I\'ve lost many in my life, the majoirty of my friends live far away actually. It sucks!
Hun, I think for the next two months you should just be with your friend and have lots of quality time together. I agree with Donna. You may be together again in the future. You can keep in touch via email and other means. You are not losing her forever. You will still be friends even if you are far apart. Make lots of good memories now to help to carry you through. We\'ll still be here for you when she moves. I know it doesn\'t make it any easier but you are a strong woman. You are loved! Love and big hugs, Robin
thanks everyone for all your comments i really appreciate them...take care of yourselves...luvya all xoxox