WOW!

It has been an emotion packed year and a half since our daughter arrived here. She carried lots of baggage and we were informed by her soon to be ex-husband that she had actually attempted suicide 2 years before.  So nice of him to not tell us when Anyway, we watched him harass her on the phone, emails & texting for several months. We lived with the fear, because she was so emotional, that she would try it again.  Finally the txtng, messaging & phone calls slowed to the po8int where we felt she was doing OK.  Then she decided to attack us with accusations of trying to control her life and being manipulative.  NOT!!!!  Seems like the only thing we could do to prove that point was to stop calling her since she had already stopped calling us it was rather easy.
Last month she dropped a real corker on us.  She was leaving to go back to NY.  It seems her manager had located a store who could give her full-time hours.  But can't believe that because in these past several months I have caught her lying.  It is breaking my heart!!!
There is more.  She has had a long time crush on a friend.  So she has fantasized over him and now we are told by others that he is in the process of a divorce.  So sad that this has happened!  Anyway ... it appears that our sweet daughter has now moved closer to him and intends to live her fantasy.    Guess she has never learned that fantasies are meant to be that and not to be lived.  Fantasies that we attempt to live cause us not only disappointment, but crash our hopes because there is now no dream, just one that has been dashed to the ground & crushed.
Our love & prayers go with her in hopes that she does OK.