well the landlord became an ass yesterday. he put letters on each door and one of the things i can't live with is that i have to sign the lease to live here with my son.
NO WAY.... my kids are the bigggggggggggggggest piggggggggggs in the world and i don't want to be responsible for any damage.
knowing i have surgery coming up i went to walmart last night and rounded up boxes. got home about 1 and stayed up till 6 packing. as of now i am probably 1/2 way done.
the kitchen will be the worse because of the mingling of pots and pans etc.. my plates and glasses are obvious and they will be really surprised when i take the microwave and my washer and dryer set.(it is on their side)
i haven't found a place to go yet, but i think that the landlord has to give a cartain amount of time to leave. i also think my kids will let me get some of the stuff later.
i have a lady i need to go talk to, i think that she has a apt open on the 1st. so all i have to do is talk the church leader in the area to get guys to help,. all i want for them to set up when i move is my bed and my tv. after my had heals i can do the rest...
even though it seems like i am always living a soap opera. i thank God for opening a window for me to leave my kids without bad feelings...
i hope all of you are having a good day...jaime
NO WAY.... my kids are the bigggggggggggggggest piggggggggggs in the world and i don't want to be responsible for any damage.
knowing i have surgery coming up i went to walmart last night and rounded up boxes. got home about 1 and stayed up till 6 packing. as of now i am probably 1/2 way done.
the kitchen will be the worse because of the mingling of pots and pans etc.. my plates and glasses are obvious and they will be really surprised when i take the microwave and my washer and dryer set.(it is on their side)
i haven't found a place to go yet, but i think that the landlord has to give a cartain amount of time to leave. i also think my kids will let me get some of the stuff later.
i have a lady i need to go talk to, i think that she has a apt open on the 1st. so all i have to do is talk the church leader in the area to get guys to help,. all i want for them to set up when i move is my bed and my tv. after my had heals i can do the rest...
even though it seems like i am always living a soap opera. i thank God for opening a window for me to leave my kids without bad feelings...
i hope all of you are having a good day...jaime
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I\'ve never been in this possition living with my kids \"THANK GOD\" but I have had such ungrateful children and no matter what I did or how well I did it they always looked to me as not doing enough. I finally had to let them go. My hat is off to you. You really seem to be handling the situation well. I\'d be a complete basket case. There is nothing better than independant living even in a marriage. My very best of love and luck to you on your future journey.
i have tried for 9 years to put my family together after my first divorce ( at the time i was told be church leaders that i couldn\'t afford them to give them away). there is so much damage and it is obvious that i need to move on and if they want to be part of my life it is their decision and mine. i hate being alone and that is what i fear the most. if and when i move soon, i think the worse part will be missing them while i am recovering from the surgery. i am also hoping that i will be able to keep the internet to continue to write to you.. hugggs jaime