the wonderful school that i was going to had my financial check put on hold from the state higher education authority. they want me to prove who i am with all the name changes i have had. i told her that the government wouldn't just change your ss# so what was the big deal? she wants it proven, so where do i start.. here is the problem i am having. i was born as susan denise garrett, was adopted by my step dad and became susan denise nordmeyer. got married and became susan denise barrett, 20 years later got divorced and became susan denise nordmeyer again, married on a rebound became susan denise johnson was raped by him and got an annulment and became susan denise nordmeyer again. he started stalking me and i changed all of my name to jaime elizabeth garrett. then i married and became jaime elizabeth beacham that lasted about three years and became jaime elizabeth garrett again. so do you see my problem.. to top it off when my step-dad adopted me my files were sealed and i can't even get a real birth certificate. any suggestions? i am gonna give them this information and ask them where they want me to start. i am going to go to the social security building here in town and tell them what is going on and see if they can print out a list of who i am and was. that is a government operation. you think if they could print one out it would do, keep your fingers crossed. i am changing schools though, rehab won't help with provo college. so i will have to go to utah valley state university.. hope this was fun to follow..have a good day...jaime

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I\'ve been there and done it Jaime! What it comes down to is a paper trail and chase. You can write to the Judge in the county you were adopted and request a copy of your name change. The Judge is the one who makes the decision on opening the file. All other certificates should be on record thru your county courthouse and if not they should be able to give you a direction in which to go in. Sometimes it feels as if I go 10 steps and 20 behind. This past week was a real struggle for me. I hope I\'ve been of some help.
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sorry to hear yo had to go through that. it will work out, just might take some time. god bless. hang in there!!!!!!!!!!
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if you have a copy of your change name valadation papers those will be acceptable....
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thanks everyone, thanks SL47 my uncles in indiana have asked the courts and i guess i will have to send a letter to the judge, i will give it a try. good idea.