It seems i only ever write bad journals about my boyfriend, it's mainly the only thing im annoyed about. When you don't see a journal written about my boyfriend it means we're happy & okay. When you do see one it's likely that we've had an argument. like today.I got home at 8pm from work today, and we spend the first hour in silence, him on his phone and me on mine, although he spends all his time on ebay. BORING.We live with his parents so we all have dinner together, and my boyfriend sits on his phone all through dinner...SILENCE AGAIN. It pisses me off when people bring their phone to the dinner table and spend the whole time looking through eBay or being on facebook and not bothering to make any conversation, its so awkward. When we go out for dinner he gets his phone out and sits on his phone then too!! makes it seem like im so boring to talk to.So i decided to go to bed and sit in silence upstairs on my own instead. I text my boyfriend telling him im not coming back downstairs, he asked me why and i said because "you sat on your phone through dinner and im bored of sitting in silence" CUE MASSIVE ARGUMENT, ME BEING BLAMED FOR EVERYTHING.I cant seem to talk to my boyfriend about anything without it being twisted back onto me or him getting annoyed over something so small. it's so hard to talk to him because he straight away gets defensive.
When we're happy we're good, when we're bad its frustrating trying to talk to each other about anything. STRESSFUL.
When we're happy we're good, when we're bad its frustrating trying to talk to each other about anything. STRESSFUL.
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hey i know what thats like i am trying to get this resolved with my girlfriend and i think i have found something that works if you want to chat :)