Acceptance

I've seen a lot of people join here wanting to know how to stop the pain of loss, or when will it end. I wish I was able to make the pain go away, no one deserves to go through this. Unfortunately there is no magic for that, again I wish there was. There will come a time, which is different for everyone, and definitely not in the early stages of loss, when we stop going over what we should've, could've, would've done. We stop asking why, (I was told Y is a crooked letter that can't be made straight so don't bother with it), it doesn't mean that the pain is gone, not sure if it will ever be, but it is a step forward.