I can't afford to let my feelings affect my addiction, but I know it does.Update on my husband. Stalemate. No Sex. No Invitations. No followup on my first move so I just go to bed alone. I guess I could say I like sleeping alone anyway. But sometimes I just want the affection.  I know this is just the way it is right now, and accept that. I need to keep focusing on myself not him. I'm changing okay to smileys. I have alot to be greatful for.