my husband stayed home today to help me with the daycare and I have just been vegging out all day there was a lady in the room next to me with the same problems I was having we went back at the same time but she was first and I could hear everything that she was saying and her pains where the same things as me so she had her ultrasouund first and I had mines because it's ER my husband couldn't come back with me so when I got back to the room I was telling him about seeing the baby and everything and when the baby was due and I was so happy and the nurse came in about a half hour later a let us know that we would be able to leave they were getting my discharge paper together and then she went over to the lady next to me a told her Miss you have an etopic pregnancy and we will be sending you up stairs and then the nurse just walked out it was so sad she was crying so bad her child's father was there but as soon as he found out he asked her was she going to be okay she said yes and he left her there and then she really broke down it was so sad and I had just been talking about how happy I was and telling my husband about how the baby looked and here she was about to lose her littlle one I felt so bad for her and that was her first baby it was so so sad I had to get up this morning and call my ob and let her know that I was seen in the ER last night her nurse was great about everything she told me to stay relaxed this weekend and if I start to bleed or have any cramping call the offices and the will page the doctor it doesn't matter what time of day but I feel really good just sleepy with a little back pain but when I had the ultrasound the the cyst on my left side was pretty big but I was told that it would not do anything to the baby but that is why I'm having so much discomfort I do not know why it didn't dawn on me that I might have a cyst and it's funny before they took me back for my ultrasound my husband said Allison I think you might have another cyst and I'm like no that's not it but he was right so for right now I'm not taking anything for the pain I'm just going to deal with it I do not want to put anything in my body so as long as the pain is not life threating then I'll just deal with it  I'm so happy I just can't wait until feb. comes so that I can meet my little one !!!!!!