On Saturday I had a miscarriage this is so hard for me I had my appointment on Moday and I felt fine everything was great on wednesday I was spotting I called the doctor she said that everything was fine and not to worry we had are ultrasound on friday and they said that the baby looked fine friday night I was bleeding and cramping so bad I thought I was going to die I called my doctor she told me to come in on Saturday at nine she read off all my lab work and the results from the ultra sound and said that everything was great and that some people bleed during pregnancy and go on to have healthy babies she said stop worring you worry to much but I'll chech you any way she open me up and the baby was coming out right there in her offices it was horrible she got the nurse and pulled out what looked like scissors and some other stuff told me she had to open my cervix a little and that I would feel a little cramping and that was that my pregnancy was over I feel so lost and sad we tried for so long to get pregnant now this it like my god how much more can I take but I know that the lord will only put on you what you can handle
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I\'m so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage 5 weeks ago and feel your pain. It\'s so hard to comprehend how one minute your preganant and the next minute your not. I still feel the loss and I wasn\'t trying to get pregnant.
I can definitely relate, I am still grieving after my chemical pregnancy. There was no day that I did not cry since then. It has just been 5 days and I have gone through IVF which makes me even lonely, the money, the effort and the baby is gone. I hope we both feel better soon, I am trying to be strong.