I'm in a very bad mood tonight I'm so upset it is one am and I can't sleep someone left me a message that really pissed me off now please do not get me wrong I'm a very nice person I'm kind loving and very understanding but when it comes to me dealing with my infertiliy I can some times fly off the handle someone that is older and already has a child sent me a message telling me that I have plenty of time to have a child life isn't promised to any of us we could leave here at anytime and this person had there first child a 23 I'm 26 and I my never get the chance she got I may never get to feel morning sickness or feel the first movements of my child inside of my womb she has that now I'm very sorry that you waited to you were 40 to have another child but at least you had that first I'm still trying to get there so keep your bad comments to yourself I'm not saying she meant it in a bad why but it felt like that and it really hurt and age has nothing to do with rising children as she said the later in life the wiser you are I'm 26 I have my own daycare that I started from the ground up I have never had a child but parents that are on baby three and four some are in there mid 30's come to me and ask advice on parenting skills I have a degree and not only that a passion to work with kids so if I would have been a mom at 20 when I first married my husband I would still be great and if god doesn't bless me with a child intill I'm 38 I'll still be a great mom to all of my new friends that I have met on daily strength thank you for all of your wonderful comments and advice and the hugs i'm sorry but I had to let that out