It has been awhile since i have been on here... everything is pretty good for the most part. I still haven't talked to my ex, but I keep seeing his family everywhere and I have dreams about us arguing like we used to. It makes me nervous because I feel like it's a sign that he is about to pop up. Probably sounds kinda stupid but its just weird how recently I have been seeing his family all the time! I am pretty stressed out because school is about to start and I am already struggling finanicially. I know when school sttarts its going to be even worse. I hate my job and that really doesnt help. I pay all my bills by myself and go to sschool....its really tough. I dont know what I am going to do. I have been talking to this guy for about 5 months now..... we are together everyday! But he still hasnt made me his girlfriend. He says he thinks about it everyday, but i dont think it takes 5 months to decide if you want someone to be your gf or not. This is what always happens to me.....my ex never made me his "gf" either, but I was the one everyone knew  about , the one he brought around his family but wasnt good enough to be his gf i guess. I dont know what  I am doing wrong..... it's kinda starting to bring me down. He told me the other day about how he bought his ex all this stuff when they were together and it just makes me sad because for some reason I can't get all that. I really dont understand. I dont know if I should just forget about it and move on or stick around and see if its gonna happen.....

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Megan, my very favorite book is \"He\'s Just Not That Into You\". Not the movie...it\'s not the same. But the book is great, and gives you good insight into the mind of men. And it\'s a very easy and funny read. I\'m sorry you are struggling financially. That\'s really tough. But if you can stick it out, or even get some small college loans, it will be worth it. As to not ever being the gf, hold yourself in high esteem and don\'t let anyone disrespect you. If this guy doesn\'t want to make you his gf, then nicely move on. You are looking for someone who will treat you with respect and kindness and wants to shout it to the world that you are his gf. Don\'t settle for anything less, and remember: guys at this age are kind of stupid. They grow out of it!