So today started out the same as usual. Argued with me all day, called me names, etc etc. But then we hadn't talked in a few hours. So I decided to send him a message just to be then end of everything. I told him that I should have done things different.... made him happier and that if I had then maybe we wouldnt be where we are now. Wished him a happy valentines day and told him he didnt have to say anything back because that was all I wanted to say to him. He sends me a message back saying " Definetly true and I already told you that."  Ok I was thinking of him responding totally different if he responded at all. You would think he would have said yea I could of tried to make you happier too, considering he was living with another bitch.... lying to me about seeing her as much as he did (before they moved in together). she was staying the night w/ him almost every  night and I had no idea! They went to the movies more than once ( which we never did in the 3 yrs!). They did more in 3 months than we did in 3 yrs. And what was his excuse for that??! She comes up with ideas of things to do and i didnt!!!!!! Are you kidding me?! And he was mad because he always had to ask for sex, normally you dont want to have sex when you have been called a slut and a hoe. Even when we were on good terms that doesn't go away or the fact that he was talking to other girls! But of course its my fault!!!!! I was miserable the whole time..... but we he called I came, when he needed something I was there. But I should have made him happier and he couldnt say the same to me. I was miserable the whole time. But its all my damn fault! Just thinking about his selfish ass gives me a headache!!!