The other day me and my "bf" got in an arguement and he called me a bunch of names. It made me really mad because I thought we were past all that. I thought he saw me differently now.  But, I think it just proved that im just not good enough for him. I told him he needs to just admitt that im not good enough... but everytime I said it he would just ignore me. He didnt admitt it.....but he didnt deny it either!  I feel like deep down I know it's true whether he wants to admitt it or not. I just dont understand why he keeps me around.  I've been w/ him 3 yrs and im not even his girlfriend yet. He gives me reasons why.... but im starting to doubt those reasons now. It really sucks because I dont feel like i should try this hard.  And I cant really talk to him about it because its like he just wants to ignore it. He always finds some way to not talk about it.... like he doesnt have time or something.  He is also very contradicting! One day he loves me sooo much ....... then the next he's calling me names again. I really dont know what im doing wrong. I think he problem is that he really just doesnt know me at all! He thinks he does  but he has no clue!