2 days till court

We thought court was going to be the 18th but got a call this am that it will be Fri. as long as they can contact his ex by then. Pd says da is offering a cap of 10 years for a lewd act on a minor under 16.We are praying for probation. Because of these new laws he will be on so list for life and also wear a tracking device for life. Since i bailed my son out 4 months ago I have been paying his child support to 2 seperate wives to keep him out of jail. He has schizophrenia and the meds he is on now he sleeps 12-15 hrs a day. He was just denied disability. They say there is a chance Fri. that he could get probation. I am going to talk to the judge and try to convince him how he would be better off at home and remind them that he was the one who reported this. My husband(not Roberts father) has now said if he goes on the list he can not live here. We have been married 15 years and he never had any kids. Sometimes I am confused by my own emotions. Praying he gets no prison time and wondering now how i will help him if he dosn't. His ex fiance had not spoken to me after I bailed him out of jail. She needed some help with bills and called me right before Christmas and let me see the kids. I was so happy.I am sure she will be at court Fri and will probably ask the judge to give him max. This involved her oldest daughter(my sons stepdaughter) they have 2 other kids together.My grand daughter has been in counseling since this happened. My whole family is being torn apart by this. Most people that know what happened and that i got him out of jail arn't speaking to me. They don't believe that i can love both the people involved. I love my grand daughter and would do anything to change this. I love my son also.My mind spins so fast i just stay confused. So terrified of Fri.