2/29/12 oh no
I let myself get stupid ! now i am so sad because the time has finally come to set into motion all those consequences for breaking our boundary agreements. i have tried to trust, but i am 99% sure he is drinking again. ALL the signs are there, there has been a complete change in appearance, attitude level of alertness,behaviors. when i am totally honest with myself i could say it began with our trip to chicago,when he had a few "social" glasses of wine. he handled it well then but.......
i have no words, just a lump in my throat.
i have no words, just a lump in my throat.
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That is tough. It is really frustrating to have to even have defined boundaries in a marriage and to have to do consequences to enforce them. Anyway, I\'m sorry things are taking a downward turn but I know you\'ll do well because you\'ve been making a lot of positive changes in how you handle things in your journals.
here is a slightly sadder thing..... i just got a puppy and i realized that effective puppy training is very similar to setting and reinforcing boundaries with hubby. only the puppy is cuter.