2/21/12
Ok, so my boyfriend got out of jail Saturday morning. Somehow he got up $10k and paid his fines and got out. He still has to go to immigration court and may still end up getting deported. But like he said, he will be getting deported on good terms and may be able to come back legal. I did ovulate sometime b/t CD20-CD25 but I don't know the exact date cause I stopped taking my BBT thinking that the Clomid wasn't going to work. I hope it was Saturday night lol. Pablo said that if we got married, and show the department of immigration that he has ties here (a wife) that they MAY let him stay to get his papers. But the government is so F'ed up and is only after money. Sometimes they offer a Voluntary Departure where they give you 90 days to return to Mexico, and if you don't they come find you and deport you. It makes me so upset that the Mexicans have such a hard time getting papers when them damn arabic people are the only bombing us and they come over here and buy every other gas station! I guess the government doesn't want to make them mad or they will jack the gas prices up lol. I'm hoping that we can get everything straightened out. I know Pablo's uncle is going thru the same thing but he also has 3 kids that he needs to stay here for. My and Pablo have none. Ugh I wish we would had filed for his green card when we had the chance. So I guess we are going to get a lawyer first and see what would be the best route to take. I don't want to get married to get his papers, I want to get married for love. :((( Well I guess that's it for now and I will update soon.
Replies
Well if you were engaged anyway what is the difference? You know you love him, he knows he loves you...the process is just a little spend up. :) We don\'t have any reason why we should wait so we are getting married on March 16th. A lot of people think that weddings should be super long and intimate affairs. We are going to the court house and then to dinner with the family and that\'s that. We are doing a reception over the summer. If you love somebody then marry them...any other things that happen are just a benefit. :)
i sure hope everything works out! keep us updated!
When I was on Clomid I always ovulated on day 21. It can make cycles as long as 35 days so I wouldn\'t worry. I\'m glad there is light at the end of the tunnel for you and your other half :)
I\'m sorry that Mexican people have such a hard time obtaining green cards in America right now but think your comment about \"them damn arabic people are the only bombing us...\" was out of order. Sorry if this offends you , but I hate racism and felt I had to be honest with you.