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not sure of anything, I know he still wants a divorce but he left and went to ohio or flordia,Now he text me and said his x-wife got what she wanted,apperently she got custody of the granddaughter.all because we got married,and even though we are divorcing it doesn't matter because he feels he has nothing without his granddaughter,that he is on his way home to pack all his stuff and move to ohio.I married a baby he runs from everything,I know hes in the area hiding cause i am at the trailer, I love him as a friend and hate to see him like this,our marriage was a mistake but that can be corrected,If he had any sense at all he would rent this trailer out and move to a apt in oak ridge where his x lives and that way he could still see his granddaughter everyday,he is obsessed with this child
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Hmmm, kind of sounds familiar...the gentleman I met on DS has a 26 yr old daughter who comes 1st in his life, she has ADD so she is not a normal grown child and daddy protects her and puts her 1st which is admirable, just I dont want to be a 2nd fiddle, on the back burner so to speak, and I would be if this relationship progressed. They share meals and tv shows and shopping and i dont see any room for me....Just how I feel. I demand to be 1st and that wont happen, glad I see it now though.
I feel like anyone we meet our age at this point will have baggage, it\'s not like when we were 20. This sucks big time, let him go and perhaps just be friends if possible