Updates

Another update,the house that me and Tim was going to purchase has big foundation issues,since both of our credit stinks,we decided to take the 16 x 80 he has and gut it,his son and wife are in it now but are moving to an apartment,it is in his x wifes name but in the divorce papers it says it goes to him as soon as its paid for,which is like 18 months if we up the payments. Actually me and his x get along,but she does tell me things that make me wonder,such as supposely mental abuse and physical too,however if it was true would he have custody of a 7 yr old? And if he was that bad why did she stay married to him 27 yrs? I know he is moody,(so was Pat) but he is also dealing with alot,having to move again,his oldest son is away for awhile and the younger son and his wife have no real income,he has learning problems and so does she,so their lively hood depends on places like burger king.Then our granddaughter who is only 7 is being pulled between him and the x as they both have custody.Add to this medical problems,lungs are messed up from smoking for 30 yrs.So really he does have reason to be a little moody.I am lucky to have found 2 good men as Pat and Tim,I do miss Pat more than words can say,he was one of the best people I have ever known,I loved him and always will,he is very lucky in a way,he was taken quick with not going through much pain and now he has no worries at all,as for me and tim,seems like there is always something we have to go through every day,I just got a call from him and he is on the way to tell me about a new problem that has come up in the past hour.I swear,can't we ever just have a peaceful day?