one day at a time
Alright, i just (might) have to take back some of the crappy sh*t i have been thinking/saying about my husband. This attempt at treatment seems to be his most committed. I remain detached, yet very cautiously supportive. On Friday he was unable to attend his usual AA meeting because the refridgerator repairman showed up late. My husband called his support guy to let him know why, and then attended a Saturday morning meeting (which he does not like so much). Then this morning he asked if we could go to church again. Things seem a tiny bit more peaceful here, i feel comfortable reinforcing my very firm boundaries, and he appears less reluctant to actually "hear" me. I am also trying to be a better listener, since open conversation is a new skill for him.