boy i was pissed! but not freaking, told him what i thought with no guilt, he tested the boundaries and my resolve.. i think he was quite surprised . tried to blame me for my \"usual outburst\" fuck him this was his bad choice, his consequences. i was proud of my emotional detachment even though it wasn\'t perfected. this is the first time i walked away not devastated. yay for me. busy social life for me coming up!! just in time for 10 days off.
Detaching is important....but try to remember that alcoholism is a disease. Hate the illness not the person. I was told this many times in my meetings. I am glad you are having some time off. Take care. (Hope you don\'t feel offended... just care) : )
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boy i was pissed! but not freaking, told him what i thought with no guilt, he tested the boundaries and my resolve.. i think he was quite surprised . tried to blame me for my \"usual outburst\" fuck him this was his bad choice, his consequences. i was proud of my emotional detachment even though it wasn\'t perfected. this is the first time i walked away not devastated. yay for me. busy social life for me coming up!! just in time for 10 days off.
Detaching is important....but try to remember that alcoholism is a disease. Hate the illness not the person. I was told this many times in my meetings. I am glad you are having some time off. Take care. (Hope you don\'t feel offended... just care) : )