WOW!
The pipes froze in the ground at my son's place. My daughter-in-law and granddaughter went to the other grandma's place to shower and do laundry, and my son called asking to use mine last night. I'm glad he did. We got a chance to talk.
HE GETS IT! Last night, he turned to me and said "I'm so glad I got a chance to spend time with Stephanie". They'd only met for an hour when we'd gone back to Wisconsin to deliver the ashes, but it was a wonderful hour that made a memory that will stick with him the rest of his life. I'm so glad he can see the blessings...
And he's passing it on, giving comfort to my brother-in-law. My son sent my brother-in-law a note on Facebook that if he needed to talk to someone, he was there... and my brother-in-law called a short time later. It wasn't a good death. The lack of care caused her liver to fail and she'd come out of the coma to end up dealing with all the pain and problems my X went through. Through the night, she had 6 times where her heart quit and they'd rescussitate. Her mom just couldn't let go... until my brother-in-law begged her to end the pain....
And again, I see the miracle grow... My son not only got to connect with the family, but also now BELONGS in a way that he's always wanted... and again, through death, the blessings come... in that I see the bond grow between them that both of them have needed for a VERY long time... Later.
HE GETS IT! Last night, he turned to me and said "I'm so glad I got a chance to spend time with Stephanie". They'd only met for an hour when we'd gone back to Wisconsin to deliver the ashes, but it was a wonderful hour that made a memory that will stick with him the rest of his life. I'm so glad he can see the blessings...
And he's passing it on, giving comfort to my brother-in-law. My son sent my brother-in-law a note on Facebook that if he needed to talk to someone, he was there... and my brother-in-law called a short time later. It wasn't a good death. The lack of care caused her liver to fail and she'd come out of the coma to end up dealing with all the pain and problems my X went through. Through the night, she had 6 times where her heart quit and they'd rescussitate. Her mom just couldn't let go... until my brother-in-law begged her to end the pain....
And again, I see the miracle grow... My son not only got to connect with the family, but also now BELONGS in a way that he's always wanted... and again, through death, the blessings come... in that I see the bond grow between them that both of them have needed for a VERY long time... Later.
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