Hello, Things re changing for the better. I nice lady, Carrie started e-mailing about when I got to work and when I left in a teasing mode. So I asked if she had her eyes on me. THe answer was yes. So I Iinvited her to dinner to discuss it futher and she accepted. So things have continued to progress from there. Nothing intimate yet, but I am enjoying the filrting for now. MAkes me feel like a young man in school. She is nice looking and almost my age. We seem to have some things in common.  I am liking the path I am on. Only on problem is I am stilling living with the X until we sell the house to avoind backruptcy and maybe end up with some cash besides. I just asked her to consider lowering the house cost so we can move on. I want to be ready in case things progress beteeen Carrie and I. 

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That\'s great that you met someone that has helped you regain your spirit. Be careful though that you\'re not jumping from the \"frying pan in the fire\". Take it slow and good luck to you! New love is always exciting and a blessing!
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Thank you.
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Sorry it takes me so long to get around to visit . I am really happy to read you having a little fun again :)
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Hi,

I am doing better but some days are tough I feel as if I wasted my life being with her. And now she wants to ensure I am financially ruined for the rest of my life. I do not plan to be her 401K.

We had a joint settlment. Then six months later she appealed the case. She was denied the appeal at the district court and has appealled to the NV Supreme Court. My lawyers says not to worry but this could drag on for 4- years if we do not settle (civil cases are automatically refered to a Settlement Judge - thats were we are now). She wants about $200K. I offerred $20K in 2 years. But I am now thinking of withdrawing that offer as she will not be happy with that so why both. SHe is curently getting a $1000 a month.

I have seen her twice since Last year andboth times I could/would not speak to her. Once at court and once at my aunt\'s funeral. I still love her and hate her at the same time - that is why I am so mixed up.