So here I sit really. My STBX sign the papers today. They just have to go to the lawyer today. I even sent her e-mails of articles by Dr. Phils to advise as a last ditch effort to stop this divorce. This is still the last thing I ever wanted. After so many years with her I feel so lost. Everything I look at reminders me of her. I tooks two xanax tonight to try and am trying to calm down but hey take an hour. I know I supposed to look forward and not but but right I am griefing worse than a death. I ahve e-mailed my sisters and son to call me as I need to talk to friends and family. Hurting - Signed Bob
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I\'m so sorry for you i feel the same way!!! I never seen this coming. As far as i knew everything was alright. I feel your pain!
Bob,
You need to grieve and grieve hard! Let it all out and take time for yourself. Cry and cry some more. Hit your pillow, get support from family and friends. My heart just goes out to you as this same thing happened to me about a month ago. I am living proof that it is possible to move past this and begin a new life. But don\'t think about that now. Just be selfish and grieve. You will then move to a new stage of hope! It WILL happen! Take care, my friend.!