smiley-smile.gif. HI MY DS FRIENDS ..IT'S NICE TO SEE YOU ARE ALL THINKING ABOUT ME .. I THINK ABOUT ALL OF YOUS TOO. SORRY I HAVENT BEEN ON LATLY...I AM TRYING TO HELP MY B/F DEAL WITH THE STRESS HE IS UNDERGOING WITH HIS MOM'S ALZIEMERS !..HE DOESNT EVEN HAVE HARDLY ANY TIME TO COME SEE ME .. BUT WE TALK ON PHONE ! I HAVENT SEEN HIM IN A WEEK , BUT SUNDAY HE MADE A EFORD TO COME SNOW BLOW MY YARD ! WE HAD OVER 40 CM OF SNOW ! I WAS VERY HAPPY TO SEE HIM , ALDO HE LOOK SO BEET UP MENTALLY !!FINALLY THING WILL BE MOVING A LITTLE FASTER NOW FOR HIS MOM TO BE PLACE IN NURSING HOME ! ITS BECOME TO DANGEROUS FOR HER TO STAY HOME ! ALDO SHE GOT MY  B/F AND HIS SISTER AND BROTHER TAKING CARE OF HER NOW 24/24. SHE GOT TO HARD TO HANDLE !.. THIS MORNING AT 9AM HIS SISTER AND ANOTHER SISTER OF HIS  HAS A APPOINTMENT WITH SOCIAL WORKER AT HEALTH AND WELFARE FOR ELDERLYS .. I AM HOPING AND PRAYING THAT IT WON TAKE LONG NOW BEFORE SHE IS PLACE IN GOOD CARE! THEY ARE ALL SO TIRED AND BEETED UP BY THIS ITS UNREAL ! MY B/F IS BEING STRONG FOR THE OTHERS RIGHT NOW , BUT I KNOW ONCE HIS MOM IS PLACE IN HOME , HE IS GONA BRAKE DOWN ! I CAN TELL SUNDAY THAT HE ONLY HOLD ON BY A STRING BEFORE HE BRAKES ,, BUT I KNOW EVENTUALLY AFATER A GOOD REST , HE WILL BE FINE ! I WILL BE THER FOR HIM! AM VERY ATTACH TO HIS MOM AND HER TO ME !.. I USE TO HAVE FUN MAKING HER LAUGH IN SUMMER TIME ON HER SWING AND SINGING CRAZY SONG I WOULD COMPOSE FOR HER! I WILL SURELY MISS DOING THAT !IT BRAKES MY HEART JUST THINKING I WONT BEABLE TOO DO THAT !IF I GO VISTE HER IN NURSING HOME AND START SINGING DOES SONG I COMPOSE AM SURE TO BE KICKED OUT OF THER LOL !.... THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR HUGS AND CONCERN ...PS.....DOLORES I GOT YOUR EMAIL HUN , JUST DIDNT GET AROUND ANSWERING YOU BACK , AM SO SORRY ABOUT THAT! BUT THANK YOU EVER SO MUCH FOR SENDING IT ! I WILL SURE TRY TO KEEP YOU ALL UPDATED WITH WHATS GOING TO HAPPEN NEXT ! ..... HUGS TO ALL OF YOU MY DS FRIEND !

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My grandmother had Alzheimer\'s and eventually ended up in the nursing home. It was difficult for all of us. Eventually she didn\'t know us anymore, not even my DAD....we were all strangers to her.
It breaks my heart to hear when others are struggling with this illness. Hugs to you, Robin
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I\'ve never had to personaly deal with alzheimers but my heart goes out to those that do. I hope things work for you and your b/f\'s family. hugs Cathy
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Oh my, you like to make up silly songs too?? I bet you are so good at it you made me laugh so hard that time you were kind enough to answer the forward. Hang in there girl, tell your b/f your friend says he\'s a lucky guy, hang in there, he\'s gotta be there to blow your snow. haha;) My prayers for his mom. love,eros
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I am so sorry that your b/f is having such a hard time, that is an awful illness to have to deal with. I know it is so very stressful for all of the family. I pray she is placed in a good home where she can get the care she needs and deserves. Glad you are there for him, I know you make him smile.
Silly songs are good, why don\'t you sing one for all of us here on ds sometime. lol
Snow sounds like a good thing, we have had so much rain lately that I feel like I need a boat! Too warm for February, but if all this rain had fallen as snow, I would not be able to get out of the door!!!!!!
Take care my dear friend, and know that I think of you often, you are in my prayers,
Keep in touch when you have the time
Love you \"Pussnboots\"