Still living in my own private Hell but at least I'm getting comfortable with the heat....... Maybe that's a good thing.

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I\'m sorry Keith...I hope it gets better for you...:(
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hope you got my note if you need a friend or a shoulder i am good at that
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Hang in there....
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TRADE YOU IN A FNK HEARTBEAT!
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like the song goes............
If your going thru hell keep on moving, face that fire walk right thru it....dont give up you just might get out before the devil even knows your there
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I think one thing that makes your situation so difficult is, basically its a mourning that you go through. similar to the loss of a loved one through death.
Once you come to terms with it, you can begin the healing process. It does seem that the more you love, the more you get emotionally injured by that person bec they take your feelings for granted.
This is the reason I direct my care only to my closest friends, and of course folks on here. Its almost like the very second someone knows how much you care they take you for granted.
Now, for those folks who have had real love and its MUTUAL, they need to realize that it is rare in this day and age to have it be mutual.
With that being said, I want you to focus on the people who DO care about you, and not give so much power to the one who emotionally trampled you.
We have to redirect our emotions to something more productive and trust me its not easy. I dont want you to miss out on exciting things in life bec of someones behavior.
You sound like you have many dimensions to your personality, as well as cool hobbies. Continue to focus on you, and life will get better!
God bless d
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Hey KeithC\'s
men have menopause,too.
most woman have men - o - pause.
is your wife in her mid 40tys ?
she\'ll return to earth by age 48-50.
will take care.