Still here....
Wow does the time fly even when you're not having fun. I can't believe I haven't updated in almost a year. Especially when I still come on DS regularly for support. You all are so great. So much to go through. I did file for divorce last October, and am still pushing, pushing.... My stbx is great at withholding info just to piss me off. Then he acts all innocent/nice guy. I'll never forget googling passive/aggressive and reading about my life! One thing is for sure, I have no regrets about separating. I miss nothing about him. Sad after 27 years, huh?
The kids all seem to be adapting. 2 college boys who keep in touch with both of us. High school girl living with me who is absolutely wonderful! Not sure how long I can keep this big house up. With kids back and forth, and too many pets, I don't see me moving in the near future. My divorce court date is Oct 12th, so at least there is a date on the calendar.
On a personal side, I have been getting to know a nice guy that knows I can't commit until after the divorce. He's been very patient, but I've been 100% honest. I'm still not ready for a new relationship. I need to live with just myself. (I learned that from you'all !) Anyway, I'm still here and appreciate you guys alot. thanks for the support!
The kids all seem to be adapting. 2 college boys who keep in touch with both of us. High school girl living with me who is absolutely wonderful! Not sure how long I can keep this big house up. With kids back and forth, and too many pets, I don't see me moving in the near future. My divorce court date is Oct 12th, so at least there is a date on the calendar.
On a personal side, I have been getting to know a nice guy that knows I can't commit until after the divorce. He's been very patient, but I've been 100% honest. I'm still not ready for a new relationship. I need to live with just myself. (I learned that from you'all !) Anyway, I'm still here and appreciate you guys alot. thanks for the support!
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