This is my first journal entry - I have been reading in Daily Strength for a couple of days.  So much variety of good and bad!  My STBX and I are separating next week.  We've actually been separated within our home for the last 2 years.  He bought a house and is leaving.  We both know its best for us.  My concern is reactions from our kids.  They 'kinda' know we're separated, but haven't been told yet that Dad's moving out. So, just hoping this transition goes well and our kids will communicate with us.  We were a poor example of communication for the last 25 years but have tried to be open with the kids.  Encouragement Appreciated!!!