For some reason, this site is timing me out, that is why my journal entries are separated.  To continue, He was to see the kids on Saturday when we got home.  They, especially my daughter, was so looking forward to that.  She called him when we got home, and handed me the phone and said there is something wrong with dad.  I got on the phone and immediately knew that he had been drinking, too much, he was wasted.  I just said how dare you and hung up.  Needless to say Sara was very dissapointed.  He called the next day to see her.  He came and picked her up (Wesley was camping with a buddy) and spent a whopping 20 minutes with her.  I guess that is better than nothing, even though that is not how I feel.  Well, the house was a mess, he didnt water my plants, take care of the pool...he did NOTHING except party the whole week.  He is such a huge dissapointed to me.  Now the kicker.  I went to work Monday, went out to lunch, and the mother of the child and dad that were to watch our house said she needed to tell me something.  She told me that when Jeff and their daughter arrived at our house, She was here with him.  He actually brought his girlfried to our house.  Well, I dont know how I worked the rest of the day, but I did.  I stopped into his parents house and said that I have learned alot about Glenn that I would never share with them, but that I needed to tell them that he brought her to our home.  I said he brought her here, slept with her in MY bed, and she walked around the house like it was here own.  I dont know how long she stayed and it really doesnt matter.  I told them that I was filing for divorce on Friday and that is the way it was.  I really love his parents and they live right down the road, so I want them to know, from me, what is going on.  He just continues to lie to everyone around him.  He has yet to call his best friends which has hurt them terribly.  I feel so violated by this.  I am over it now.  When I confronted him with this information, he denied it.  Surprise.  I told him he was a coward and that I know she was here and so does he.  Now I know what kind of person she is to.  To walk into another womans home and play house just makes me sick.

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What incredible nerve for both of them to be in the home while you\'re gone! You showed a lot of strength and composure by not blowing up when you first learned on the phone that he was there, and by returning to work and toughing it out. It\'s tough, but keep taking that high road.
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Thank you so much....