It is two weeks today that I found out the last year of our marriage was a lie - at least for him. Really, I cannot believe that it has been that long since he has not been here. Our kids are very upset with him and the counseling session helped yesterday - helped all of us. We have great kids and I cant imagine their pain because I am having trouble with my own pain and sorrow. We are leaving for vacation tomorrow. I act excited about it for the kids and everyone tells me it will be good for me to get away......I just keep telling myself that. I hope that my mind slows down a bit so I can get some rest when I am there. I am going back to my hometown. The kids and I have not been there is 5 years. It is just going to be hard for me to leave my home....it has become my safe place. How sad is that.
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my husband moved back in after eing gone for 3 weeks, saying he wanted to work on our marrage, turned out he just wanted to save money until the house he had put a deposit and signed a lease on was available. He was in the house, but I never saw him. He left again Saturday. He later e-mailed me and admitted he moved back in for all the wrong reasons, and never should have done it, justhurtme worse.