hmm...
Was just thinking....I know that if I leave Mike, he's going to accuse me of running away from everything. As much as I have been pointing out our marriage is in the proverbial toilet, he does seem realize it at ALL. Personally I think I would think of it as a "do-over" and just let it be. More than just the finances are making things rough. I've lived lower middle-class most of my life and I know what it is like to scrimp and pinch. To not mention things to your parents because u KNOW that they can't afford it. Mike seems to just want to live continuously beyond his means. I can't live like that anymore. This morning he got cranky with me because I was getting ready for my interview and when he asked me to make his work sandwich I said no. What the hell? *sigh*
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It sounds like you\'ve already made the decision, now you just need to execute it. Do you have a plan? Where will you go? I wish you luck with this. It\'s a HUGE undertaking tearing apart your life, even when it\'s already mostly torn apart. Remember to come here and vent when you need to! *HUGS*
He needs to understand that if the money isn\'t there he has to deal with that as for his sandwich, what did his last slave die of???? I do hope you can work it all out.