I am looking for someone who has lost an adult child who had children of their own.  I am the mother of two grown son's.  My youngest was killed in a work related accident May 21, 2007.  He was my youngest son and we lived in the same town.  I saw him and his family almost everyday.  Not only am I having a hard time dealing with this tragic loss but my heart is breaking for my grandchildren who were all extremely close to him.  He was the loving, giving, caring parent in the family.