So I'm back for a while I hope, I have a temporary computer for a bit, but anyway's abunch of shit has happend since the last time I wrote. I guess we'll start with the bad thing I lost my cat and am devistated he's been missing since tuesday and at first I thought he would come back I put up signs with a reward and everything, but today I woke up realizing he isn't comming home and I had an attack it wasn't pretty.I'm really tore up about the whole situation not to mention how my kid's feel. I guess I'm just going through the emotions first hope then sadness and finally anger. I never want another cat as long as I live!
On another note I started a group therapy group three day's a week and I really like oi You get way more input than you do with a group than just a single therapist. I told the I was challenged to decide what happiness is to me and what it looks like and after some time I came up with an answer. Happinees is the feeling of being free from having the world on your shoulder's and dealing with everyonelse's problems because we have enough of our own, its feeling confident in making decisions and being ok with them. Niether of wich I can do yet!
On another note I started a group therapy group three day's a week and I really like oi You get way more input than you do with a group than just a single therapist. I told the I was challenged to decide what happiness is to me and what it looks like and after some time I came up with an answer. Happinees is the feeling of being free from having the world on your shoulder's and dealing with everyonelse's problems because we have enough of our own, its feeling confident in making decisions and being ok with them. Niether of wich I can do yet!
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It\'s nice to see you around a bit!!!!
When I was a child, we always had cats. One time, on of them was gone for a week. After about 3 days, we figured she was probably never coming back.
In our case, it turned out she was in a neighbor\'s garage!!! They hadn\'t been in there for a week. She must have sneaked in the last time they had opened the door.
I did have another cat who \'ran away\' and never came back.
The only solace I had was that she loved to fight. I figure if that\'s how she went, at least she was doing the thing she loved.
She was a blue-point siamese, so maybe someone saw her and wanted her as a pet.
Have you called animal shelters in the area? Even if you think they\'re too far away for your cat to have gotten there? You never know. Someone might have taken the cat to a shelter.
It\'s heartbreaking to lose a beloved pet. Pets are NOT just animals that live with us. They\'re family. And I\'m so sorry your guy is missing.
I\'m glad you like your group!!!! You\'re SURE to get good things from it then!!!! (((((Hugs)))))