Holidays
Ok, things will never be the same and I do not like it. I still hid baskets for my kids, but there wasn't any family to be with and one child went off with her father tonight (One sick and oldest doesn't see him) Once again the X sent nasty text saying I should be able to force my oldest to see him! I can't even get her to do dishes or clean her room how does he expect me to get her to "like" him again?!!
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I think your oldest not liking her father is his problem to fix and not yours but you are still going to hear from him.
What an ass! It isn\'t your responsibility to brainwash your kids to like him, communicate with him or anything. Dont\' let him pressure you
The courts will ALWAYS do what\'s best for the children in a divorce and by 12 here in Michigan, it\'s their choice if push comes to shove. And you no longer have to answer to him...
the oldest gets along with her father ok now. Sees him occasionally and he will give her rides sometimes when she needs them. so I guess it is better, although now I am dealing with, \"why don\'t you like her, mom- she\'s nice? (the gf!) My daughter\'s so immature in many ways and my X has told her that the gf had nothing to do with anything- she was an innocent! REally? She emailed, texted, met, confessed her passion to, and then slept with with a married man and she is innocent? No wonder my poor baby is so confused. I got her to have a rellationship with him again and now Ihave to hear these sort of comments. i also have to see the OW/gf at my daughter\'s events. I cannot stand it.