I was married 27 years and he thought we could get a divorce in 3 months lol. But he wanted to move back to the UK where he was born to be with his ex girl from 35 tears ago. He had a online affair then she stay the weekend he lied about. I knew.
What blew me away is how much I\'m a better person today because of him. I lost myself.
He said this \" don\'t have to tell the (adult kids) it none of there business\" I told the kids that, boy they blew-up.
Anyway I\'ve been divorced since \'06.
Sold the house, started a new life, still looking for the one.
I\'m here for you.
Ann
So similar! My children knew about the affair before I did and yet he still thinks I didn\'t have to tell anyone about it. Excuse me? He was saying that we had \"drifted\" and that I didn\'t love him anymore, when AT THE TIME, I still did. I wasn\'t going to lie about it to anyone. I have been in therapy and realize that I had felt more like I had an extra child, not a mate. My divorce is final on 2.29. Never thought that we wouldn\'t grow old together, but now I couldn\'t care less. I just want him to help support my children. I won\'t exactly be jumping for joy, but it will be a relief to know that I can stop accumulating attorney bills, after!
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I was married 27 years and he thought we could get a divorce in 3 months lol. But he wanted to move back to the UK where he was born to be with his ex girl from 35 tears ago. He had a online affair then she stay the weekend he lied about. I knew.
What blew me away is how much I\'m a better person today because of him. I lost myself.
He said this \" don\'t have to tell the (adult kids) it none of there business\" I told the kids that, boy they blew-up.
Anyway I\'ve been divorced since \'06.
Sold the house, started a new life, still looking for the one.
I\'m here for you.
Ann
will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.. We will all be there with you
So similar! My children knew about the affair before I did and yet he still thinks I didn\'t have to tell anyone about it. Excuse me? He was saying that we had \"drifted\" and that I didn\'t love him anymore, when AT THE TIME, I still did. I wasn\'t going to lie about it to anyone. I have been in therapy and realize that I had felt more like I had an extra child, not a mate. My divorce is final on 2.29. Never thought that we wouldn\'t grow old together, but now I couldn\'t care less. I just want him to help support my children. I won\'t exactly be jumping for joy, but it will be a relief to know that I can stop accumulating attorney bills, after!