TO ANYONE WHO  HURTS! HOW TOO GET RID OF OR DEAL WITH THE PAIN! CONSTANT, NON STOP PAIN LITTLE SLEEP! DON'T WANT TO DO ANYTHING BECAUSE IT HURTS! GET LITTLE REPIEF! CAN'T DO ANYTHING HURTS, PLEASE HELP WITH THE PAIN,- ALSO TODAY IT'S MY BD SO MY WIFE IS TAKEN ME TOO SEE CHICAGO/AMERICA, SO WE NEED THE TIME TOGETHER, THIS PAIN & OUT OF WORK IS PUTTING A TOLL ON OUR MARRIGE!INWHICH I AM SORRY FOR ALL THE HASSELS& DISCOMFORT IN OUR HOME!

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hey i feel you do you know what is causing your pain?Or you running into a brick wall like me?
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Tell your doctor the pain meds aren\'t working very well. Ask him to refer you to a pain specialist. If you haven\'t seen a neurologist, consider that. Tell us what steps you\'ve already taken so we can offer more advice. So sorry you\'re in pain, we\'re all in it together here on DS and offer each other support. You\'ll find good friends and hopefully suggestions for relief. In your profile, write down what the injury was, such as: back, leg, neck, etc. and what happened, such as herniated discs, nerves damage, etc. We understand how it takes a toll on marriage, family, etc. so you\'re experiencing what so many here are facing. So sorry, you have my empathy and support. Hope you enjoy your outing. Welcome to DS.
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Hey peters, Happy Birthday, I so understand the toll it takes on a marriage I have been doing it for 6yrs I agree with lesliew. The more we know the more we can help. Stay strong my friend, we are all here for you.
God bless
Lisa
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I see I\'m a little late, but happy late birthday anyway.
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I\'m late with the birthday wishes as well...so consider this a BELATED HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!
You need to be more specific with what you\'re doing right now to relieve the pain. If anything, that\'s something we ALL understand around here.
There are meds that can help a LOT. You might even get total pain relief, depending on your problem and the med prescribed.
Hope you enjoy the concert. Chicago is one of my favorite groups. You know..there are ways to make your wife feel more special. Small things. Things that EVERY man can do, if he\'ll just do them.
Tell her she\'s beautiful. Tell her every day that you cherish her (something different besides \"I love you\"). When you get up to go to the bathroom, kitchen, etc...reach over and give her a kiss on the cheek first. Grab her from behind when she\'s cooking (or doing dishes) in the kitchen. Nuzzle her neck. I could go on and on...and if you\'re already doing those things, ignore me, lol. Becky
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I see I\'m late with Happy Birthday! I just wanted you to know there was another person out here thinking of you & who knows how you feel. The strain a marriage, any relationship really, is sometimes unbearable...kind of like our pain is! We\'re all here at DS for you anytime, hope you had a great birthday!
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOVE YA BABY, AND I\'M SORRY ABOUT YOUR PAIN, WERE BOTH IN THE SAME BAOT!! I\'M IN CONSTANT PAIN TO, WITH MY BACK AND ALL. I WISH YOU THE BEST!!