still get on occasionally -got on yesterday just becasue i was thinking of eveyone at this time and i read my messages and i cried maybe something i need to do more-tears were always a sign of weakness to me -just what i was taught -be strong -what do tears help but sometimes they come. i guess were all in this together -people out there in cyber space who have never met but held together by a bond. just to let everyone know also i do not hold my nephew responsible for kellys death- kelly made a choice to race and thats why he wrecked -he was not drunk just had alcohol in his system(probably more than he should of ) be if he would of just drove home he would of be ok BUT i do however have these feeling towards my sisters family and i know its wrong but i do have a little satisfaction that they are going through this because i want them to feel the pain that i feel -which they never will because prison would be better than death but they have just totally abandoned me and chels and i just which they could walk in my skin one day and feel the pain, the misery, the complete lost, the missing , the anger that i feel and then maybe they would understand why i needed them to show me that they cared -i know its crazy but thats how i feel.everyone know that i think of all of you often and your wonderful kids. p.s. kellys tree is amazing-i will put it on my pictures when i get a chance- love you all carol
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Your not crazy you are entitled to your feelings. And there will always be those what ifs..sending you a warm hug hope that your day is going ok..love sherry
ive missed you , we have all kinds of crazy feelings , i had a bad melt down yesterday , its been up and down all the time , i feel the need for revenge all the time , its not fair i just want to lash out , i think of you and john all the time , your missed here , don\'t stay away to long , much love ++pat
Yes, you are missed and it is good to hear from you. Remember, your feelings are your feelings and their is no right on wrong way to feel. This is real & you do what ever you need to to to find the relief that you need. Lots of love 2 you!
It\'s ok to feel all the emotions you can. It\'s probably best to not bottle them up, they would continue to eat away. One day there will be a feeling of resolution. Probably not for a very long time. Please continue to check in, you are thought of often. Love Robin
We will be here any time you need us. We are sisters by a bond that only others like us share. Stay strong but remember tears are not a bad thing they only release those feelings that are bottled up inside and need to be let out. YOU are still strong! Hugs, Vera~Erick\'s mom
Thinking of you during this time. It is a difficult time with Christmas coming. I think you are ok with whatever you feel you have every right to feel and let those feelings out. Hold on, we are here. Love and hugs,Kate
You are definately not crazy. If you haven\'t gone down this road you have no idea. There is not pain like the death of your child. Tears are not weak, tears are strong and helpful without tears I\'d be locked up. Sonedays it\'s the only way to release the pain, anger and outright hate that we feel. If we didn\'t we would end up very ill. May you know I am always here for you, cyber or not. Love and hugs Cathy