so tired of this pain and wish i could just turn back time-why did this happen to us why god feels so far away -kelly feels so far away. as time goes by i feel worse instead of better
It\'s so soon, so fresh, so raw....less than 3 months. Hang on darling, I\'m here. And I\'ve survived my 3 month mark. Hard as hell this journey at times, and yes at times it feels like we\'re going backwards while walking on our hands. Everything seems upside down and out of kilter. But, baby, you ARE healing. And what you\'re experiencing is normal for 3 months. My advise is be honest with your emotions and experience them...as painful as they are, releasing that energy will exhaust you and then heal you. Talk about and to Kelly constantly. Scream, break dishes (as Marianne highly recommends), cry, get mad, go to the mountain tops and wail if needed. But know that you are not alone and you are healing. It takes such a long time to heal from this horror we\'ve been dealt. It doesn\'t happen in 3 months...or probably not in 3 years...and I\'m not sure there\'s ever an end to our healing. I think it will be a continuing process for the rest of our physical lives. BUT, I do know, that today, for me, at 8 months, I\'m in a better state of mind and am more healed than I was at 3 months. I\'m here darling and I care and I will do whatever I can to help you in your journey. Call me anytime.
Hugs from Teri and Kala
I understand your pain. I have the same questions. 3 months is so fresh and raw. I agree with Teri wholeheartedly. We walk this road together and leave no one behind. We are here for you whenever you need us. Lots of hugs, Jake\'s mom, kathy
Carol, It\'s been 240 days almost 8 months since Erick was taken from me... It\'s does seem to be better on some days, but there will be days that make you feel like you have come crashing down again. I will be here to help pick you up and move forward. This painful journey is new to all of us and we each travel it in very different ways but we all know it can be overwhelming and lonely so you can count on me to be here when you need someone to scream to, get mad with, or just need to talk it out. Hugs for comfort and support, Vera ~ Erick\'s mom
Hang in there, this horror is still so new and raw, and has not begun to scab over. Just making it from morning to night is all you can be expected to do at this stage. Talk about it to any one who will listen, talking is the best medicine. Talk to us if you can\'t find anyone to listen we\'d love to hear. Love and hugs Cathy
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KNOW UR PAIN MY FRIEND...HUGGIN U TIGHT..LOVE DIANA
It\'s so soon, so fresh, so raw....less than 3 months. Hang on darling, I\'m here. And I\'ve survived my 3 month mark. Hard as hell this journey at times, and yes at times it feels like we\'re going backwards while walking on our hands. Everything seems upside down and out of kilter. But, baby, you ARE healing. And what you\'re experiencing is normal for 3 months. My advise is be honest with your emotions and experience them...as painful as they are, releasing that energy will exhaust you and then heal you. Talk about and to Kelly constantly. Scream, break dishes (as Marianne highly recommends), cry, get mad, go to the mountain tops and wail if needed. But know that you are not alone and you are healing. It takes such a long time to heal from this horror we\'ve been dealt. It doesn\'t happen in 3 months...or probably not in 3 years...and I\'m not sure there\'s ever an end to our healing. I think it will be a continuing process for the rest of our physical lives. BUT, I do know, that today, for me, at 8 months, I\'m in a better state of mind and am more healed than I was at 3 months. I\'m here darling and I care and I will do whatever I can to help you in your journey. Call me anytime.
Hugs from Teri and Kala
I understand your pain. I have the same questions. 3 months is so fresh and raw. I agree with Teri wholeheartedly. We walk this road together and leave no one behind. We are here for you whenever you need us. Lots of hugs, Jake\'s mom, kathy
Carol, It\'s been 240 days almost 8 months since Erick was taken from me... It\'s does seem to be better on some days, but there will be days that make you feel like you have come crashing down again. I will be here to help pick you up and move forward. This painful journey is new to all of us and we each travel it in very different ways but we all know it can be overwhelming and lonely so you can count on me to be here when you need someone to scream to, get mad with, or just need to talk it out. Hugs for comfort and support, Vera ~ Erick\'s mom
Hang in there, this horror is still so new and raw, and has not begun to scab over. Just making it from morning to night is all you can be expected to do at this stage. Talk about it to any one who will listen, talking is the best medicine. Talk to us if you can\'t find anyone to listen we\'d love to hear. Love and hugs Cathy
I understand your pain. Each day is a struggle. Take one minute at a time. I am here if you need to talk, scream or vent. Thinking of you love lucille