See what I mean?  Updates happen faster than I can count them.I saw my husband's pay stub for his last paycheck.  He had received $746.  He tells me it is all gone, and furthermore he took a cash advance of $2200 a month ago.  There has probably been a thousand dollars in interest charged since then.  Today is his payday, but since he is now a student and has switched to part-time, he only received a couple hundred dollars.Also, Monday wasn't the first time he has used cocaine since our wedding.  He admitted that, when the drug dealer knocked on the door to collect money (which was more than $800, he now admits), he left him with some more drugs to keep him hooked and in debt.  He thought the drugs were a free gift, until the dealer came asking for repayment.  The dealer has his new cell phone number that he just changed three months ago for the sole purpose of getting rid of the dealer.  He asked me to take the clean dishes out of the dishwasher.  They are encrusted with something that looks like sesame seeds.  We don't cook with sesame seeds.  And sesame seeds don't have segmented bodies.  His leaving food everywhere in the house led to a fruit fly infestation, which led to maggots crawling over the dishes in the sink, and apparently he didn't rinse off the dishes before putting them in the dishwasher, so now the maggots have been cooked onto the dishes.  A nice golden brown.I snapped a digital photo of the cooked maggots.  When I went to transfer the photo to the computer, I noticed that the last photo taken was of his penis.  The computer helpfully dated this photo Monday, September 10, at 9:11 in the morning.  His calendar indicates he should have been at an eight-hour nursing clinical class that day.  It was later that night that he went out for more cocaine.  His computer also indicates that he was using a gay sex personals website on Monday and Tuesday.