I love "boring."  I love having a daily routine.  Not that I can't be spontaneous and adventurous, I can.  (Jumping out of that plane at 10K feet for my 43rd birthday was AWESOME!)  But after many years of craziness/drama (variety of causes), smooth & steady fits the bill.  I'm pretty laid back by nature, but relaxed AND anchored feels really good.  A bit nervous about what will be happening at home as I leave for my overnight work trip tomorrow, but looking forward to the trip.  This has been my first full week back since the holidays, and I'm struggling.  I would definitely be great at being an independently wealthy woman who didn't have to work. Things have been remarkably pleasant and uneventful since Christmas, and they always are until a blow-up.  For now, sobriety, health & our relationship are being prioritized.  I hope that it continues.  One day at a time...