It's another great day. I've come through the worst of all of this and am seeing a new future ahead. There are so many things today to be thankful for. My career is going well, my dogs and cats are healthy and happy, my sister is well again, I have a home and am able to pay all my bills, a reliable car, good health, clear mind, hobbies like photography and music, I have found some great friends, and recently found love again, right after I learned to love myself. Some may think this is too soon, but being dumped is not like loosing your husband in death and there is no mourning period. It just happened and it was the most natural thing in the world. There is no reason to wait if you know that it's right. Some of you may want to wait because you are not ready and that is understandable, but there are no guarantees whether you wait 1 month or 10 years! Some say to me, "oh no... enjoy the single life for a while..." In all my adult life, I never enjoyed being single. I have had 5 months of doing whatever I like and eating whatever I want and although this was liberating for a while, it's not enough reason to enjoy being single, especially if there is a chance I can share my life with someone. We are all different and have different basic needs. Thanks for listening and being there, all my friends. Thank you DS for allowing Ray and Robin to find each other and begin again!HUGS to everyone!
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hey you. I\'m so happy for you. He sounds lovely ( I read what he wrote yesterday). I have found myself in the same situation, except mine is only 25 miles away, and am worried about other peoples reaction that it is too quick. The thing is you don\'t know when you are going to find someone to love and who loves you so when you do, grab them and don\'t let go. Know one can predict the future and sometimes you just have to take a risk.
Here\'s to you and Ray, I hope you will be very happy together xxxx