Feeling good today! 
Talked to the friend that I was having trust issues with and figured out I am part of the problem. It's so difficult to trust people after being abandoned. I've become guarded and suspicious to protect my fragile heart. It's ok it's all a learning experience and part of the personal growth that I expect will be ongoing for many months to come.
I gave my STBX the divorce papers last week and I figured he would have contacted me about them by now, so we can get them notarized and filed with the court. I wonder why he's not done this yet? Part of me wonders if he is a little reluctant because he is not sure it is the right thing to do, but he's probably just too busy with work and travel. I wonder how I would handle it, if he begged me to come back to him. I feel I have already moved on and stopped loving him like a husband. He no longer has my heart.
Just a Hypothetical question... If your spouse wanted you back right now, would you take them back?
Have a great day all!
Lots of love!
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No,I would always wonder if he would leave me again and I don\'t think I could survive this again.
That\'s what my head says, not so sure about the heart if he seemed truely repentant. Mind you he would have a lot of ground to make up on the trust stakes.
So I suppose the answer must be I don\'t know what I would do but it is never going to happen to me so why worry?
Glad you sorted your friend problem out, I wish I had the courage to do mine.
Take care
love
Alison xx
nope, nope nope nope...well i\'d like to say i would try. and i would probably go to counseling BUT i know myself and i\'d be worrying about everything and if he would leave again, cheat..etc.plus the girl was at work so he\'d have to quit, LOL...i\'d never trust that, i know that. not to mention he\'s just sooo selfish and proves it more and more everyday..don\'t think i ever truly knew him..good good con man.
YOU are so strong sister!! keep it up! i love listening to your writing...oh wait, i mean reading your writing....You are have COME SO FAR!! you stay strong!!
Well that is a tough question but if you would like my opinion, I think that you should move on to a man who truly loves you and would never leave you pretty lady. :) :) :)