Work will be busy for months to come. Good! I am needed and will have a focus .... if I just COULD focus!! I have such a hard time staying focused! Is it the divorce, menopause, fantasies of a night in shining armour...??...sigh! Anyone else having problems focusing and getting tasks to completion? I have a million things started and very few done. 

The STBX called last night. He said he was splitting up the cell phone account, but he would pay for it for a while and carry the medical insurance until we are officially divorced. He was nice and sounded a little concerned about my expenses.  He may have looked at my financial statement in the divorce papers, I am guessing, and saw how tight my living expenses will be. I don't know...

My friend at work was talking about the story of JK Rowling and how her husband left her and she became poverty stricken, yet pulled herself to unbelievable heights with the Harry Potter series. So inspirational! Hehe... I bet HER husband is a sorry sack of slop thinking what could have been! :)

Something to think of each time I feel discouraged trying to reach my dreams. smiley-laughing.gif

 Sweet dreams to all of you!!

 

 

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Yahoo JK Rowling! My girls have certainly contributed to her wealth. They each have bought all of her books. Of course they couldn\'t share one book! I think if your STBX is being nice to you, that is a good thing. I wish my X would be more considerate. He is awful. It makes things a bit easier if you are both being civil.
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Hi
The best revenge success!
The Mum side is creeping out this AM hope you dont mind , so here goes.

You might consider pay as you go cell phone if you are penching pennies Verizon has that as well as Target. Just a thought
You might consider just a hospital plan or a plan with a high deductable (my hubby is an agent)HMO vs PPO
Insurance is regulated in each state regulates there own, never go direct an agent is your voice if the insurance co gives you grief or dosent do there job
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It\'s just so scary. I don\'t think we are going to manage financially either. Tight isn\'t the word..strangulated more like. Glad he is concerned, he dam well should be.
I can\'t concentrate on anything, even the slightest problem seems insurmountable at the moment. I\'ve never been like this, I just think my brain has got overload!!!!! Where is my knight? Never one around when you need them. Still, got to keep looking. I don\'t even mind polishing his armour!!!!!!